I was really only going to make this a short announcement regarding the deplorable tendency of certain individuals to think that this site, be it the comments or the Bark, is All About Them™ to the point where participating becomes a pain in the arse to everybody else.
Yes, you know who you are. I’m not even going to dignify your tantrums by calling you out because, quite frankly, you are not worth it.
But the specific nature of the latest spat made me think about something else, something that might actually be interesting as opposed to me just wasting my time playing referee, a task that I neither want nor feel is worth my time.
It is the subject of hypersensitivity towards criticism.
Is this the best country on the planet, is this the only place I’d ever want to live and die in? Yes. Because if it weren’t so, I wouldn’t be here. I’d be in some other better country. I am extremely grateful for having been adopted by this great nation, for having been welcomed like any native son, but I am not here “just” because of that. I’m here because I truly, fully, without hesitation believe that this is the place to be, that there is no other place on Earth better than here.
This is my home. Every blade of grass is sacred to me, every square inch of United States soil is part of me and I would and will die to protect and defend it. Gladly. I challenge anybody to question my patriotic bona fides.
But does that mean that I will suffer no criticism of her, no matter how justified, does that mean that I think that we’re perfect? Not by a long shot. By a much longer shot than anyplace else on Earth – again, if I felt otherwise I wouldn’t be here – but that doesn’t mean that we’re the leader in every single field of human endeavor.
Take education, for instance, something that has been brought up. I don’t mean to piss in my own nest, but the level of education in this country leaves a lot to be desired. Not because Americans are “dumb”, not even close, Americans, a tribe that I am immensely proud to belong to, are some of the smartest, innovative, creative people that ever existed, but because our schools are fucked up. They’ve BEEN fucked up to the point where it pains me to see the results they churn out.
Allow me to give an example: I’m not patting myself on the back here because I’m not in any way exceptional compared to my peers in my native country, but when I was in 11th grade I could do differential equations in my sleep, integration was second nature, I understood complex numbers and n-space, I spoke four languages, I was as familiar with biochemistry as I was with the history of civilization all the way back to the first scattered villages around the Euphrates, I had read a vast portion of the classics and Iambic Pentameter wasn’t Greek to me, I could give you an accurate account of the history of the Roman Empire from the First Punic War to the Fall, there was not a capitol in the entire world that I could not place on a map, I could ride a horse, fire a gun, sail a boat and lead men in battle, quote Shakespeare and Pericles at the drop of a hat and that’s only part of it.
Again: This is NOT because I was a “prodigy”, it was because it was required of me. If I couldn’t do all of those things, I would have never graduated.
And here I constantly run into people with degrees who can’t even fucking spell in their OWN language.
Does me pointing that out make me a “hater” or a “traitor” or an “ungrateful bastard?”
If so, then I’m proud to be all of the above.
But the truth, the truth is that my only motivation for ever bringing up these criticisms whenever I do is that I love my country.
“Better than the rest overall” doesn’t quite cut it when it comes to what I want for these our United States of America.
In every competitions there are two, and ONLY two placements: “Winner and ‘also ran’”
“Also ran” isn’t good enough for our nation. I want, I INSIST on our nation being the best in every field known to man. Every. Single. Field.
Because we’re worth it and we can do it. Second best is not acceptable. I want the rest of the world, no matter what the subject matter is, to look up to us and to realize that nobody does it better than us. Because we DESERVE that. But we’ll have to work to get there, and anybody standing in the way of that needs to be eradicated. Ruthlessly.
We already have a jump start since we are, indisputably, way ahead of the rest of the field in the “overall” category.
But that’s still not good enough. “Good enough” is for losers. We, Americans, my fellow beloved countrymen, are NOT LOSERS.
And the only way we can ever get out of being mired in “good enough” is to accept criticism when it’s warranted. If we’re lagging behind in some field, any field, then we need to acknowledge that and put our energy into changing that, NOT wasting it on denying reality.
And, dammit, we USED to be all about that! When we saw a shortcoming in the way we did things, we USED to take it to heart and make ourselves better rather than just pounding our chests and screaming “we’re the best, no matter what you say.” That’s what made us big, that’s what made us strong. We adopted the best practices of the rest of the world when they proved more efficient than ours and we ended up as the most powerful nation on Earth because of it.
We DIDN’T behave like hypersensitive, spoiled little brats when we were forced to acknowledge that we had something to learn. We adapted, adopted and not only copied what others had found, we ended up doing it BETTER than them.
When Patton was faced with the reality that the Germans knew blitzkrieg, control of the battlefield through superior mobility and disrupting the enemy’s OODA loop, better than us did he react by throwing insults at the Germans and stubbornly insisting that, even though they may have kicked our arses at Kasserine, we were STILL better than they were?
No. He did not. He read their books, he copied their tactics, he refined them and he threw it right back in their Teuton faces in France and, as a result, the Krauts never recovered until the Siegfried Line. He took criticism, learned from it and came out better on the other end.
That’s how you deal with criticism, with your own shortcomings. You realize that you’re behind the curve, you find out why you’re behind the curve, and then you do it better than anybody else. You do NOT respond by whining, screaming and insulting anybody daring to criticize you, claiming that your way is the best way no matter what.
That’s what losers do, and Americans are NOT losers.
I want my country to be the best. Not just in one field, not just in many fields, but in every fucking field known to man. And then some. And that means that, from time to time, I will point out flaws in how we do things and suggest better ways of doing them.
Because I LOVE my country, not because I hate it.
Thatisall.